Reading Comments & Self Discovery | ep 11

In this heartfelt episode, we, Alexis and Kelly, explore our contrasting approaches to managing the chaos of our busy lives. While one of us thrives on structure and rules, the other embraces the unpredictability of life, and we unpack how our mindsets affect our productivity, especially in terms of horse care and achieving success in our equestrian endeavors. Our conversation delves into the nerves that come with being involved in the equestrian world.

Kelly shares her upcoming role as an announcer at the Georgia Hunter Jumper Association banquet, expressing all the anxious feelings that come with such a responsibility. We reassure each other and discuss how our own anxieties manifest in different ways but ultimately connect us through shared experiences. A particularly vulnerable moment arises as we reflect on a recent incident where one of our horses exhibited concerning behavior, prompting discussions about the responsibilities of caring for these incredible animals and the financial pressures that come with equestrian sports.

We both share a desire to seek guidance from a sports psychologist to help navigate these emotions. As we dive deeper into our experiences, we openly discuss the anxiety that arises before entering the show ring. We share stories of how we cope with these nerves, including how one of us embodies a "Karen" mentality—unwavering determination to achieve her goals. Listeners' comments are featured, giving voice to our community's own experiences with anxiety during horse shows. We talk about the variety of horse shows, noting that while some are fiercely competitive, others offer a much-needed opportunity to enjoy riding and camaraderie.

We emphasize the refreshing benefits of taking breaks and exploring new venues to revive our passion for the sport. This episode is filled with humor, vulnerability, and encouragement as we remind ourselves—and our listeners—that we're all navigating our unique journeys in the equestrian world. Tune in and join the conversation as we continue to build our supportive community!